Our precious Kate!

Kate Elizabeth Bennett

September 24, 2009

6lbs. 5 oz. 19 1/4 inches

Rick and I are happy to introduce Kate Elizabeth Bennett. She was born on September 24th at 12:01 p.m. She weighed 6lbs. 5 oz and is 19 1/2 inches long.

There are many things that happen during a labor and delivery but I will spare you all the details. I just all of you to know that we are elated that God has blessed us with another baby. The kids were able to come up to the hospital and see Kate yesterday and they just loved her. We are going home today which I am happy about. I will continue to update with information and pictures for all of you!

Love.

Rick & Kelli

Where do I start???

Rick and I have not been great at updated all of you!  I keep telling myself that I will get better at this blog thing and the next thing I know is two months pass without any updates.  So here you go!!!!

Rick’s update

Rick was given a clean bill of health at the end of July.  We were overjoyed with emotions.  I found myself one minute singing praises and the next minute I was crying uncontrollably.  The emotion that I was hit with was something that I never imagined.  My sick husband was now healed.  The doctors are recommending that he have a chest x-rays every two months as well as blood tests done.  The doctors will be evaluating both of these tests to see if there are any changes to his body.  At the year anniversary (July 2010), Rick will have another full body CT scan.  From there I have no idea how long we will live with scans and blood test....but honestly I don’t really care.  I am just so thankful that God preformed a miracle on Rick’s body.  We are really thankful for all the prayer partners, helping hands, encouraging writers, and sweet dear friends that we have.  We really....I mean really.....love all of you and appreciate all of you so much!

Kelli’s update 

I have continued to have a rough pregnancy but I can now say with a smile on my face......IT IS ALMOST OVER!!!  I will be induced on Thursday, September 24th at 5:00a.m.  It is only 6 days from now.  Please pray that Kate stays in the 

"head down" position because only 1 week ago she was in "breech" position.  She thankfully has flopped but I just hope she stays that way!

Kids Update

Andrew & Caleb both started school.  Andrew is in Kindergarden and Caleb is in Pre-K.  They attend school twice a week and I homeschool the other three days.  I must say....I love it!  My kids are very eager to learn which makes teaching them such a joy.  Andrew is reading, loves to use his imagination when drawing and his handwriting is exceptional.  Caleb is enjoying going to school with his  big brother and cousins Daniel & Jack.  I have never seen a 4 year old who is so meticulous as Caleb.  He colors his pictures with little or no errors.  I am really proud of how well he is adjusting to  school.  Bekah is still our little princess for now (meaning until Kate arrives).  She loves the two days that we are together while the boys are at school.  I really enjoy her little personality!  Her new favorite and I mean favorite thing is DORA.  She recently became potty trained which was a breeze for her.  She literally had 2 accidents and after that was trained.  As her reward, Grammie made her a Dora blanket and pillowcase.  She loves sleeping with both of these items.  

 

PRAISE GOD!!!

Rick has just finished his appointment with Dr. Einhorn in Indiana!  

THE CANCER IS GONE!!!  

We are truly praising God for healing Rick's body!  

I am sure that Rick will update the blog with more details but I wanted all of you to know the awesome news!

Family Fun

Yesterday, our family returned from a much needed summer vacation.  We stayed for 5 days at a house on Anna Maria Island.  The house was perfect for our family.  It was located literally one block from the gulf, had two bedrooms, was decorated adorable, and had an amazing pool.  My (Kelli's)  parents  came for 3 of the days which made the trip enjoyable and also easier . 

 On Wednesday, Rick and I enjoyed taking the kids to the beach for some body surfing.  The boys really enjoyed using boogie boards and Bekah liked being in the water with her daddy.

On Thursday, my parents arrived at the beach house.  We were thrilled that they were willing to drive 8 hours for a three day vacation with us!   Rick took my dad out fishing on Thursday afternoon which turned out to be quite the fishing experience for both my dad and Rick.  

 Rick hooked into a huge tarpon which he ended up fighting for 2 hours.  My dads job was to drive the boat as Rick fought the fish. I am glad to see that the chemo has not weakened Rick's drive to catch a big one.  Rick tells this story much better than I do...but the quick version is that Rick was fighting the fish, when all of sudden his line went slack, and he actually thought he had lost the fish but really the big tarpon was trying to get away from a much bigger fish that was trying to eat him.  When Rick realized he still had the fish on, he reeled as fast as he could until he finally landed the fish!  The tarpon was missing his tail and was bleeding everywhere in the boat.  Rick thinks that the tarpon was probably attacked by a  shark.  WOW!  Check out the pictures!

Friday morning Rick and my dad spent a few hours fishing but unfortunately there was not as much excitement as the day before.  We spent the rest of the day relaxing in the inter coastal, swimming, snorkeling and of course eating!  We seem to do alot of eating on this trip.  It seemed like we were either in the boat, swimming, or eating.  

Saturday morning my mom and I took the kids out to the beach for some pictures.  Why do I always think....this won't be so hard....yeah right.  One kid smiles , the others frown.  One kids eyes are closed, the others look great.  I bet I took 30 pictures and only a few came out!  I guess I need lower my expectations of a 5, 4, and 2 year old!  

We spent the rest of the day relaxing at Egmont Key.  The boat ride out to the island was uneventful.  The guys dropped my mom, me and the kids off at the beach for a few hours while they went fishing....again no real action.  We spent the morning playing in the water and again eating!  

We tried several times to also get a family photo and this is the best we got!  

We had an amazing vacation!  We are really appreciative to our new friends who let us rent their beach house for these few days!  We are now all relaxed and sun kissed!  

The last thing I would like to ask from all of my readers is to remember to pray for Rick and his dad.  They are currently in flight to Indiana for Rick to meet with the doctors at Indiana University Hospital tomorrow morning.  He will have blood work done and another CT scan.  We should get the results from the test tomorrow afternoon.  We are praying that the cancer is GONE!   I feel a little anxious over the whole thing but God continues to comfort me with his word and through many of you.  Thank you all for the sweet encouragement!  I will update the blog as soon as we receive news!  

Still hanging in there!

I know what you all are thinking......finally another update.  Sorry it has been so long since the last update but we have been having serious computer problems. Well...here you go!

Rick finished his last hard week of chemo on Friday.  We are elated that this type of regiment is over.  He will have two more doses of chemo over the next two weeks but these treatments have little or no effect on his body.   Rick is really relieved knowing he will not have to endure another week of intense chemo.  The wonderful news that we received last week from the doctor was that Rick’s tumor markers are “ 3 “.  If you remember Rick’s markers were 24 before the removal of the tumor, 38 after the surgery but before chemo started, 7 after three weeks of chemo, and they are now 3.  To put these numbers in perspective..... anything 6 and under is normal.  We are truly praising God for Rick’s healing.  We know that God is the ultimate physician and we are so thankful for this latest example of his power and healing.

I am still struggling through this pregnancy.  I have few days that I feel “normal”.  Most mornings I struggle with feeling weak, having low blood pressure and energy, and feeling faint.    By mid morning I usually feel good enough to make it through the day.  I will be 25 weeks this Monday so needless to say I still have many more weeks ahead of me.  I still can not  drive because of the fainting episodes so I am thankful for my family and friends who chauffeur me around town.  

Rick and I continue to be encouraged by all of our friends and family.  Thank you for all the acts of kindness that many of you have shown our family. From the emails, cards,  great meals, to cutting our grass, to cleaning our house, to watching our kids,  to being chauffeurs for Rick and I.   I really don't know what we would do without all the help!  

Kelli

  

What Else????

Just when you think life is back to semi - normal....sometimes God gives you another bump in the road to cross....why????  I don’t always know but we have to trust him in all circumstances even when everything seems CRAZY!

Well.....our kids returned from Grammie and Grandpa’s house after visiting with them for almost two weeks.  Rick and I were elated to see the kids on Friday.  Rick really put his best foot forward after a long week of intense chemo.  He was able to eat with us, play with the kids and he even read the kids a story that night.  He was feeling okay but not great.  On Saturday, we spent the day relaxing around the house.  Rick again tried to hang in there but truly did not feel great.  I guarantee the kids had no idea because Rick was really trying to have a great day with them.  Then Saturday afternoon Rick started complaining about his shoulder.  It was a little discolored (black/blue) and swollen.  We called the Oncologist to explain the pain, the appearance of the shoulder and he explained to Rick that he may have a blood clot.  He instructed Rick to take aspirin and call him in the morning.   He had a terrible night and barely got any sleep due to the pain that he was in.  Sunday morning his shoulder was worse so we called the Dr. and was instructed to go the ER.  After several hours in the ER it was determined  he indeed had a blood clot.  He was admitted to the hospital and spent the remainder of Sunday and all day Monday at the hospital.  The bottom line is he has a blood clot in his shoulder near the port site, but the port is working well.  He will continue chemo using the port but has been placed on blood thinners.  The regiment is as follows...for the next four days Rick will have to give himself shots and take an oral blood thinner.  Rick was proud of himself today after giving himself the first shot.  I could barely watch so you know I was no help and if you know Rick well, this was also a  huge accomplishment for him because he hates needles.    

Rick was a little discouraged by this set back but he is of course hanging in there! I am really proud of Rick and the way he is handling this cancer!  He still has a great outlook on the situation and is trusting God to heal his body.  Thank you all for your calls and emails.  Rick and I both really feel blessed by the supportive family and friends that we have.  

Kelli   

 

Another day in the life of the Bennetts!

Rick has had a great week with only one dose of chemotherapy. His white blood count was low therefore he had two shots which are intended to boost his count. He will begin his treacherous 5 days of chemo this week. Please pray that he will tolerate the drugs well and have a great appetite.

Our kids are still visiting Grammie and Grandpa in Milton which was supposed to open our week for projects or shopping trips or even a few well deserved "date nights". Instead......Kelli spoiled everything with a trip to the ER. It all started when I was out shopping and started feeling lightheaded and sweaty. I started heading back toward our house which was only about 1 mile. As I turned down our road my vision became blurry. At one point, I could not differentiate the road, from the trees, from cars. All I could think about was STOP the car....so I did .....or thought I did. The next thing I remember is waking up and throwing up everywhere. There is about 5 minutes in between which Denise, Rick's sister, tells much better than me. (By the way for those of you who do not know.....Denise lives on the same road we do...the story will make more sense if you know this). From her viewpoint.....She saw my car stop....she rolled down her window to talk to me....I was just staring ahead...she thought what is wrong with her....is she mad....is she upset....my car started rolling....she jumped out of her car... she started banging on my window....I am still staring forward....eyes wide open....not even a flinch from me....she jumps on the running board of the car.....opens the door....slams on the brakes....I bang my head into the steering wheel....I start having tremors/shaking...I start throwing up! WOW!!! Denise then has my 14 year old niece, Kimberly, call 911. The ambulance / firetruck came to my rescue. During this time Denise is also calling Rick who has gone into work for a few hours to tell him about the ordeal. I was then transferred to the ER. After doing tests after test I was released with no real diagnose. I then met with the OB who believes I am already having Vaso-vagal episodes. I had these issues with my last pregnancy around week 32. What is alarming is that I am only 21 weeks so this problem will probably become worse. Vaso-vagal is an involuntary nervous system event which leads to slow heart rate, low blood pressure, and slow circulation resulting in dizziness or passing out. My OB is pretty sure this is the cause for my passing out but did what me to consult with a Neurologist to eliminate the possibility of seizures. Rick and I met with the Neurologist on Friday and he agrees with the OB and thinks that I am having vaso-vegal episodes. He is going to perform an EEG test tomorrow to rule out the possibility of the seizures. The things that I have to be careful of is being on my feet too much...good luck with having three kids and drinking enough fluids. Rick and I keeping laughing at this whole thing.....First him and now me! The real big news with this whole thing is that I CAN NOT DRIVE UNTIL OCTOBER!!!! AAAAAHHHH!!!! I really do understand that this is best for me and others but man this is going to be a real inconvenience!

When I think about that day I am reminded of God's great protection. God totally orchestrated the timing of the whole event. He protected me until I was on a private drive...not in traffic on HWY. 301, he timed Denise leaving her house at the exact moment I was in distress. I am overcome by emotion even as I write this posting, because God was most definitely protecting me and others that day. How do people not believe that our God is ALL powerful? ALL knowing? and ALWAYS there? I am so thankful to him for his protection last Wednesday.

Please continue to pray for Rick's health and for mine.
Kelli